I think we all know, burnout is real, and it’s hitting us hard in today’s non-stop world. I know we all have our own stuff going on, but let’s talk about what’s happening out there that’s pushing so many of us to the edge. First up, we’ve got these crazy job demands. I’m talking about the kind of pressure that has you answering emails at midnight and scarfing down lunch at your desk. When your to-do list is longer than you can imagine and your boss acts like yesterday’s deadline was too generous, that’s a recipe for burnout.
And don’t even get me started on toxic work cultures. You know the type – where gossip spreads faster than butter on hot toast, and kindness is about as common as a snow day in July. In places like that, you’re not just doing your job; you’re surviving a battlefield. That kind of negativity seeps into your soul, and before you know it, you’re drained dry.
Now, here’s another truth for you: feeling like you’re always on thin ice at work or that your opinion doesn’t matter- that’s going to wear you down . When you’re constantly looking over your shoulder, wondering if today’s the day you’ll get that pink slip, or if you’re stuck in a job with no room to grow, it’s like being trapped on a hamster wheel of stress. And that wheel can spin you right into burnout.
Last but not least, we need to talk about boundaries. In this world of smartphones and “always-on” culture, we’ve forgotten how to turn off. It’s like we’re afraid if we’re not available 24/7, the world might stop spinning. But here’s what I know for sure: if you don’t take time to recharge, you’ll end up so burned out you couldn’t light a match with your energy. We’ve got to learn to put ourselves on airplane mode sometimes, or we’ll crash land into burnout. Remember, you can’t pour from an empty cup, so take care of yourself first. That’s not selfish – that’s survival.
- Set those boundaries, and set them firm! I want you to imagine your time and energy are as precious as that last piece of chocolate cake. You wouldn’t just give that away to anyone who asks, would you? Start by turning off those work notifications after hours. And here’s the kicker – actually stop working when your workday ends. It might feel scary at first, like you’re letting people down, but trust me, you’re doing everyone a favor by showing up as your best, well-rested self.
- Now, let’s talk about your support system. You need your own personal cheerleading squad, and I’m not just talking about at work. Reach out to friends, family, or a professional if you need to. Sometimes, just having someone to vent to can be like letting the air out of an overinflated balloon. And if you’re in a toxic work environment, it’s time to start planning your exit strategy. No job is worth your mental health.
- Here’s one that might surprise you – schedule your joy. That’s right, I want you to put fun on your calendar like it’s a board meeting. Whether it’s a bubble bath, a dance class, or just 15 minutes to read that book you’ve been eyeing, make it non-negotiable. Joy isn’t a luxury, it’s as essential as breathing, and it’s your secret weapon against burnout.
- Lastly, and this is a big one – learn to say no. ‘No’ is a complete sentence, and it doesn’t need justification. Start small if you need to, but practice flexing that ‘no’ muscle. Remember, every time you say no to something that drains you, you’re saying yes to your wellbeing. And isn’t that what we all deserve?
There you have it. Four steps that can start turning the tide on burnout. It won’t happen overnight, but with consistency and self-compassion, you can reclaim your energy and your life.
Have an Amazing Monday (and everyday!),
Leanna Fredrich, Leadership, Career and Stress-Management Coach
PS: Interested in Coaching? Please email me at Leanna@amazingmondays.com